Finally i have been able to log into the forum! it kept going to the database error page, after trying for more than a couple of days.
anyway, i have run the delfix recently.
I think it is probably age related too, but most likely something wrong inside the computer. So i would probably have to get someone to have a look inside it for me. It's been like this since before i upgraded to windows 10. the noise started in 2014 or 2015, cant really remember.