I figured it out
How can I get rid of the Blacklist my OLD spybot made? Its stopping my internet adaptor software!
The old entrys arn't recorded in the 4 Tab removal box's!
This is for future reference to people who have this problem, I allowed (based on user decision)changes but i didn't realize it was actually disabling software to open. So my laptop completely shut down along with all the drivers. I tried to do a system restore, it wouldn't allow it. Kept telling me "The Volume Shadow copy service used by system restore us not working(0x81000202)." I had no idea what I did but I completely blocked any software from working, safemode, bios, f8...there is nothing on the "advanced settings" that showed "repair..."
so after 7 hours of just clicking and searching the resident log, I figured it out!
What you do is type in msconfig in the cmd box and go to selective startup and click "enable all."
after I restarted the computer, everything worked and I was able to do a system restore from a few days ago, before all this B.S.
I was a little mad at myself for not trying this earlier because it was such an easy fix, but well stuff happens.
(I did the above last, but I think it would work better if you try it first)
I also found myself at the Computer management, you can just type that in the cmd/search box. Computer Management--->Services and Applications--->services... it lists all the drivers and software. They were ALL disabled, so I started changing to automatic when I realized I could go to selective start up and enable all.
I really hope this helps people, because I could not find an answer anywhere.